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"May we never forget that the Lord works wonders for every one of his devoted lovers. And this is how I know that he will answer my every prayer."  -Psalm 4:3 TPT

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by Margaret D. Mitchell
Week of February 17, 2019

"Don't grumble about each other, brothers and sisters, or you will be judged. For look--the Judge is standing at the door!" -James 5:9

There I was, years ago, sitting on my prayer chair half awake, before I’d even made my first cup of coffee when the offense appeared just outside my window. A distant family member who had afflicted me for the past 10 years in the most bullish ways was pulling into my driveway. She was dropping off items she had borrowed for a recent party. I could feel my flesh rise up with thoughts like: Why is she coming here unannounced at such an early hour? Could she possibly get any more annoying? Home alone, I held my breath, refusing to unleash my tongue in the silent atmosphere of my home. So I prayed through clenched teeth, “God, why does this person bug me so much?!”

See It…

God revealed to me that what I was seeing in this woman was the same offense that He saw in me: Self-righteousness.

God doesn’t reveal our sins to us for the purpose of condemnation. He reveals them to us for the purpose of convicting us from that which He desires to deliver us. He does us a favor by breaking through the enemy’s deception that has kept us in bondage and by showing us the way out. His truth sets us free (John 8:32).

When we don’t see others as God sees them, we see them through a hindered perspective, which is a mix of our own understanding and the enemy’s lies.
I had complained about this woman before to my husband in private. But God desired I come up higher, come up out of that trap. It was as though God was saying to me, "Here's an invitation to get it right this time."

Consider Job…

We only have to look as far as Job’s inner circle friends for evidence. After Job nearly lost everything, they insisted that he had to have done something wrong to bring on his afflictions. They even cited their knowledge of God’s laws as they understood them. But they were wrong.

Job’s friends struggled with an attack of self-righteousness. While in the pit with Job, they behaved like well-meaning, know-it-all, imposing, condemning, anti-Proverbs 3:5 “friends.” They added insult to Job’s injuries. They were quick to judge without God’s perspective.

What Is This?...

Self-righteousness is self-reliance, self-justification and self-idolatry. It is an exaltation of our perspective over God’s, knowingly or unknowingly. It is deception that presents the lie of our “right” standard above God’s standard of righteousness. Who can fathom all of God’s righteousness? Even Job, the most righteous man of his time, could not.

Our self-righteousness is a snare of betrayal to the heart and in the face of Jesus. It is a smite that strongly suggests that His grace at the cross and in our circumstances isn’t good enough. Our self-righteousness is inherently distrusting of The Lord.

Selfish Motives…

The enemy will try to bring fear and provoke our weaknesses into actions that we self-justify as a false standard. Think Eve. Think Judas.

All the enemy knows is selfish motivation because he is the epitome of selfishness. Self-righteousness is his imposition of his scheme of selfishness, which can return a harvest of judgment upon us.

He is the accuser of the brethren, the prosecutor (Rev. 12:10, Job 1:6). If he can get us to exalt ourselves and our standards above God’s, he has evidence to condemn us. Don’t take this deceiver’s bait! Be wise.

No one likes to be around a self-righteous person because of the constant unrest, the critical eye and the words of judgment spoken against others. Once delivered from this vicious trap, we can more easily love others and pray them through.

The Make-Up of Self-Righteousness…

I believe self-righteousness is formed by ungodly influences that are mixed with godly influences. For example, our parents may have taught us right from wrong based on what they understood of The Bible. They may have also inadvertently influenced us to see the world and judge situations and people according to a mixture of Biblical wisdom and their life experiences—right or wrong.

But when we become a new creature in Christ, God expects us to come more into His truth, His glory and begin to see those same situations and people according to His purer perspective. This is spiritual growth, sanctification. And no matter what we’ve been through, God desires to purify us from the mixture. He holds us to His standard, not ours.

Our Way Is Not the High Way…

You may know people who are set in their ways. Maybe you have a few grumpy, all-about-me family members that lean on a set of standards from which they will not budge. Everyone is expected to fall in line with their beliefs and do things their way. Their standards are obvious to you.

The truth is that we all have some set standards that God desires to break in order to give us a breakthrough for more of His likeness in us. And others—especially those close to us—can often see what’s in us—the good and not so good. Our emotions need to grow up and come into a higher level of spiritual maturity, according to God’s righteousness.


God will allow people close to us to irritate us by mirroring the very issues from which He desires to deliver us. God may use them as a vice, like Job’s friends. They may judge us, condemn us and just plain get on our nerves so we can know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of what we unknowingly do to others.

The enemy may try to use these people’s annoyances as a snare to try to provoke us into self-justifying our stance. But God, in His sovereignty, will use the enemy to only go so far—far enough to cause us to press into God for an ultimate breakout from our bondage into His higher holiness.

After studying the Book of Job for weeks, I have learned to not self-justify my position or perspective regarding God’s sovereignty. God is so much bigger than all of our messy relationships and circumstances, and He desires to give us more, just as He gave to Job. Once Job humbled himself and prayed for his friends, God doubled his blessings!

Your Way Out…

Whenever we present a situation to others and grumble and complain about that person—whether we do it to their face or behind closed doors—God sees it and is not pleased. As James 5:9 indicates: Grumbling is a snare of the enemy that will open the door for us (not them) to be judged!

God invites us to lay down our hindrances. We can receive God’s revelation, repent and be restored by Him to higher ground. This is an area of spiritual maturity that God desires for all of us. Will you receive His ways? If so…
  • Submit everything and everyone who bugs you to the throne of God.
  • Ask Him to reveal to you why it/they bug you.
  • Ask Him to enable you to hear and know His truth and reveal the root of the issue to you.
  • Depend on God alone to guide you. He may illuminate scripture and/or lead you to other resources that further explain your situation to help you understand.
  • Thank Him when He reveals His truth.
  • Repent for all your sins (i.e., self-righteousness), including those you see in others (Romans 2:3).
  • Forgive others for judging you in a self-righteousness manner. Pray that God will bring His conviction, lead them to repentance and deliver them from self-righteousness into His truth on the matter. Speak a blessing over them.
  • Thank God for setting you free.
  • Ask God to help you walk out His freedom for you so it will become established in your soul.
  • Enjoy your newfound victory!



"Give, and you will receive gifts--the full measure, compacted, shaken together and overflowing, will be put right in your lap.  For the measure with which you measure out will be used to measure back to you."  -Luke 6:38

And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love.
Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him.

1 John 4:16
Margaret D. Mitchell

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