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Bitter to Better
by Margaret D. Mitchell
Week of October 9, 2016
"...God is light; in Him there is no darkness at all. If we claim to have fellowship with Him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth." -1 John 1:5-6
One morning as I was about to leave the house for a coffee meeting with a dear friend, I received a text from a distressed young woman: “I have never been so scared in my life.”
Turns out, her father had threatened to kill her, the rest of her family and himself the night before.
The Holy Spirit’s leading and timing of this text was perfect. After responding, I drove to my friend’s home with a sense that she and I should pray. We know what the Bible says about two gathering in His Name…that He is in our midst (Matt 18:20).
As we lifted this distressed family up, The Lord immediately showed us a vision (day parable) of a large pot that was boiling over on a stove. The lid had come off from the heat and pressure. This young woman’s father was out of control. And so we continued to pray and to text back to her.
God will allow us to go right to the edge of our faith and knowledge and pride to submit to Him to deliver us out of deep, dark crevices of our souls.
1 John 1:8-10 tells us…
“If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. If we claim we have not sinned, we make Him out to be a liar and His word is not in us.”
So what is God’s truth at the root of this man’s behavior or His truth regarding any of our issues?
We can know God and still have deception in areas of our hearts. Ungodly beliefs and fear lock lies away, sometimes for decades before we are confronted with our escalated behavior that springs up like a fountain from a bitter root. And when bitterness takes root, it doesn’t die on its own. It must be confronted at the root with truth.
A Choice to Recover
When difficult circumstances cause us to feel uncertain and overwhelmed for a long time, we have a choice to run to God's Word and ascertain His truth or to believe a lie from the enemy of our soul, who will use bitterness as a weapon against us.
Fellowship is Critical
Fellowship can be critical to recovery. Pray and invite God to shine His light on the dark corners of our minds and hearts. Reaching out to trusted believers can help too. Think wise counsel.
James 5:13-16 instructs us…
"Are any of you suffering hardships? You should pray. Are any of you happy? You should sing praises. Are any of you sick? You should call for the elders of the church to come and pray over you, anointing you with oil in the name of the Lord. Such a prayer offered in faith will heal the sick, and the Lord will make you well. And if you have committed any sins, you will be forgiven. Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results."
James 5:19-20 also says…
"My dear brothers and sisters, if someone among you wanders away from the truth and is brought back, you can be sure that whoever brings the sinner back will save that person from death and bring about the forgiveness of many sins."
Are you willing to help restore wandering, waffling believers? Christians who struggle in the depths of their souls to come to know God better? People who have turned away from confronting the deep, painful issues of their hearts that prevent them from living holy?
And when storms come your way, what will you choose to believe—Our God who loves you and uses challenges for your good to build you up or the hateful enemy who desires to destroy your life—and those around you—with his lies of hopelessness?
I repent of hopelessness, unbelief and rebellion amid my difficult circumstances. And I choose this day to be restored to Your truth, Jesus, Your solid rock foundation that will protect me amid the storms and that will enable me to remain steadfast in You as I fight the good fight of faith and run the race of my life, holy for You by Your grace. Have mercy upon me Heavenly Father. Please help me Holy Spirit. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me; but I can do nothing apart from You.
I pray that The Holy Spirit will lead this young woman’s father to a trustworthy ministry leader of His choosing, who can help him out of the tomb of despair and the wild, stormy behavior of anger. I pray for a conviction, a willingness and a deliverance that will enable him to see the light of Christ make all things new in his life. Amen.
This devotional was adapted from Margaret's forthcoming book, Enduring Grace. All rights reserved.